Monday, January 8, 2007

Boy Two: Faith/Pride/Courage/Youth

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Look at the boy at the right. How pretty his face and body are-- the latter, of course, are only known by his roommate.
The first time I heard JayDavid speak during a group discussion, he impressed me a lot by saying, "Don't set limits for your wages", when asked of his wishes for the future. That group discussion consisted of substitute service newcomers, some of whom come from medical schools, for example, me, and some from graduate schools. Jay, nothing but a medical administration graduate, made the most astonishing declaration in it.
Later on, through some twists and turns, I became Jay's roommate. He shared some of his family background and living disciplines with me. His father is a insurance broker, and makes excellent achievements (and a lot of fortune) in his company. I imagine his Dad a tough guy. During college days, Jay realized his disinterestedness in his major soon, and turned his attention to insurance administration and investments, which are for sure inspired and stirred by his Dad. He acquired quite a few insurance licenses at a super young age of 20. Now, he is studying for an estate agent qualification examination. What's more commendable, at rest, he studies English, and reads numerous books about career scheme and motivations.
To make him outstanding is not only his diligent learnings but also his adorable physical strength. Guess how many push-ups he does within one day. Two thousand. You don't read it wrong..... Dumbbells are everywhere with him whether watching TV or playing computer. He enjoys this kind of training, which he thinks enables him to be more competent when confronted with future challenges.
JayDavid makes a very clear and determined plan about balance management. At present, we earn a shabby salary of approximately 10,000 NT per month. I run it out plus advance. But he saves 8,000 NT per month, Jesus! He spends less than 35 NT in each meal by eating without meat in cafeteria and collecting bread on sale and instant Milo powder for breakfast. I don't think nowadays youngsters could stand that. At least I can't. He saves these money as funds for further investments.
Sounds like a wonder boy, huh? Good father model, good career schedule, strong mind, strong body, keen learning, etc. Too perfect to be true. In my previous entry, I remarked so:"I don't see any sense and point if he would fail." But honestly speaking, I fear if it does happen. Jay builds a invincible castle to endeavor inside. Everything is impeccable. While sarcastically, impeccability doesn't exist on earth. Sometimes I wish he relaxes more, caresses imperfect flaws, and rests in downturns. Life is not all about fighting. Life emphasizes moderation. Of course it deserves a lot of encouragings for a young man to be active and aggressive in searching his goals and realizing his dreams, but can he allow setbacks, how long can he sustain, when can he be satiable, how much is enough to render him happy, and how about the ones who love him but inevitably would be ignored during his fight for his aims? Are they included in his plan?
My cared Jay, you life cannot lose. Your wings are fresh, and the missions are heavy to carry.
Jay transmits strong radio-frequency, my personal feelings. Ya everybody has his own frequency; it come from your ideas, your pride, your faith, and your attitude. But since every individual carry a unique frequency, it has to be adjusted a little bit, to fit in the harmonious groove. Jay strongly absorbs the signals coming from the same frequency, but how'bout the different others? Lastly, a roommate's private suggestion, CLING TO YOUR MORALE, NOT STICK TO YOUR BED.

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